Is your puppy biting you? There is no doubt that puppy teeth hurt! They are like sharp needles and if they catch your skin while you are playing or interacting with them, it can be really painful!
If you want to stop puppy biting, it is important to remember that this isn’t your pup being aggressive in any way – it is just that they are still a baby, and they have limited ways to play and interact. Up until now, all of their games with their littermates and their mum have involved teeth and biting – so this is what they think the play is.
Puppy play isn’t just for fun either – it is a great social, bonding exercise. Now your puppy is part of your family, they want to bond and be social with you, and they only know one way to do that. With teeth!
So while those puppy teeth hurt, it’s important to understand why puppies are biting and start to teach them that playing and interacting with humans has to be done tooth-free.
Find out how to stop puppy biting and how to stop puppy mouthing and chewing by reading on.
Why is my puppy biting me?
Puppies bite for different reasons. Firstly, they have limited ways to play and interact – and so this play will often involve teeth. Some pups bite because they are excited, others because they are frustrated or over-tired. But another simple cause for biting is that it is part of their physical development and it teaches puppies how their own teeth and jaws work. They bite as part of this developmental process.
Here is how to figure out the cause in your puppy’s case.
Puppy biting as socialisation
When a puppy is with their littermates and their mum, all games and social interactions involve biting. That is the only way they have to play at that age – and so they expect that is the way you will want to play too.
This puppy biting is an important life stage that teaches them how to use their teeth appropriately.
When puppies in a litter play together, this play will involve lots of rough and tumble and play-biting. This is how puppies learn to interact with each other and also how to limit their biting. If they bite too hard or the play gets too rough, the other puppies or their mother will stop playing with them, so they learn that if they want the games and the fun to continue, they have to be more careful with their teeth. This teaches a valuable lesson about appropriate interactions with others.
Some breeds or types will bite more – or at least be more mouth-focused. Many of our more popular breeds are gundogs of gundog crosses, and many of those were developed to bring things back in their mouth – so as puppies, everything goes in their mouth! Others we developed to have lightning-fast reactions and to grab things. Discover more about gun dog breeds and everything you need to know about them.
Excitement biting
It is easy for puppies to get overly excited – especially if you play rough games with them. Puppies don’t have many ways to deal with this excitement and arousal – and so biting is an almost surefire result.
Overtired biting
Just like fractious toddlers, an overtired puppy is often a fractious and bitey puppy. Puppies need far more sleep than most people realise - an eight-week-old puppy needs to sleep for around 20 hours a day! Not only will this reduce a lot of their biting behaviour, but it will also help them learn better too.
Schedule nap times into your puppy’s day to make sure they are getting their beauty sleep. Remember to provide sleeping arrangements for your new pup to make this process and their experience as calming as possible.
Do puppies bite when they’re frustrated?
Puppies often bite when they are frustrated – so if they are not getting what they want or sometimes if you are preventing them from doing something, that frustration can lead them to bite – especially if they are also over-tired or over-stimulated.
11 Top Tips on how to stop puppy biting
To teach your puppy not to bite and to behave appropriately you need to use gentle, positive reinforcement. This means that you encourage your puppy to do the things you want them to do and reward them when they do so, usually with a tasty, healthy puppy treat, so it becomes their new default behaviour. Always reward the behaviours you’d like your puppy to repeat and if your puppy displays behaviours you’d rather not see, use our dog training guides to teach them an alternative.
Importantly, you are always looking to put your puppy in situations where they will behave the way you want them to – so you can reward that good behaviour. When it comes to biting, it is about removing the triggers that you know will encourage your puppy to get toothy.
Even with your best intentions, your puppy will occasionally nip you hard enough that it hurts. First of all, don’t over-react. Yes, it may have hurt but if you tell your puppy off, get annoyed or shout at them, you will make them scared of you, lead them to mistrust your hands, and it will break down the relationship you have.
Instead, you have several options and the option(s) you choose will depend on your puppy’s character, breed/breed mix and a bit of trial and error. Here's how to stop puppy biting:
Never punish your puppy verbally or physically. You will just make them fearful of you, it will damage your relationship, and it will not have the effect you desire and can make biting behaviours worse.
With some consistency and reward-based training, your puppy will soon learn that games with people need to be gentle and tooth-free.
This will not happen overnight – and there will be plenty of slips along the way – but be consistent and patient.
How to prevent puppy biting
We know how to stop puppy biting, but can we prevent it when we are playing with our puppies?
Puppy teeth are sharp and their jaws are weak. This means that while bites hurt, they don’t cause injury and this helps them to learn bite inhibition from their littermates and their mum – and this happens through interactions and play. As a result, however, the occasional painful nip might happen while you and your puppy are playing.
When your puppy comes home with you and is living in a human family, they need to be taught that games with humans don’t include teeth! You don't want puppy biting to be a continued behaviour into adulthood but you do want to teach them appropriate ways for you to play and have fun together.
Here is how to prevent puppy biting during play:
Don't play rough with your hands
- Don’t play rough games with your puppy or push them around with your hands, this is just encouraging them to use their teeth to grab at you. Hands aren’t for playing with.
Teach puppies that hands are good things
- All interactions with your hands should be gentle and soothing; stroking, ear rubs, back-scratching etc. Your puppy should learn that your hands are good things and not tug toys or dog chews.
Games of tug do not include hands
- For gentle games of tug, use toys and not your hands. Again, your puppy should learn that your hands are not for biting. If they do bite your hands, redirect their attention to a toy.